this is to you

this is to the person struggling to get friends. this is to the person trying to find there place. this is to you.

i’ve been where you’re at. yep, no friends, finding my place. the constant feeling of being left out or degraded. been there done that, and it was NOT fun. i’ve come a long ways from where i was. and still have some to come. it’s ok to not have all the friends. its ok not to be popular. and its ok that you haven’t found your '‘place” yet. its all ok. but lets get something straight i said it was ok to be in this place, but its not ok to stay in this place. to just give up and quit trying. that is not ok. YOU DO NOT GIVE UP. not popular, no friends, haven’t found your candy yet? i dont care. it is NOT ok to give up and quit trying. it’s ok to be in this place for a little while but you can’t feel sorry for yourself. you have to pick your life back up and keep going. i quit. i quit trying. i quit wanting to be friends. wanting to find my candy. i just quit. and that was not good. please don’t make that mistake. keep trying. don’t act like you’re better then everyone else. go make friends and try to find your passion, even if it’s different, keep trying. you’re going to get knocked down SO many times. but get back up and keep trying. you’re going to struggle, fall down you might scrape your knees, break some bones and see some blood, but that just gives even more reasons to keep going.

when you’re about to give up. when you’re about done that’s when you have to keep going. that’s when your put to the test to see how tough you really are and see how strong you are. there are going to be mean girls and boys. there are going to be times you want to quit. heck there are times i want to quit. but you can’t. you have to be strong and stand up for yourself. just remember when you stand up for yourself not to act like the person you’re standing up too.

this is to you.

xoxoxo

Yours Truly, ME